It's a funny thing, really, since I was born at the tail end of the 70s and really consider myself a child of the 90s. But the 1960s, oh, oh, oh : the fashion, the jargon, and the television; oh yes, the television. I grew up on a farm in northeastern Montana, and after we installed our first satellite dish (enormous; my good gay god, gimongous!) I had access to more television and movies than I ever dreamed of. But it was those series from the past that truly captivated me.

As a little queer kid growing up in Montana I would watch Bewitched reruns on my grandparents’ ancient television set on muggy summer afternoons, and then again on Nick at Nite in high school; while I was figuring out my sexuality, Samantha was learning the ins and outs of mortal life; we learned, seemingly, and two decades apart, but thanks to the miracle of syndication, together.

There was also the parade of magical relatives, all larger than life: lavender-clad and make-up laden mother Endora, the show’s primary antagonist; sneerish queerish Uncle Arthur; theatrical, Shakespeare-spouting “Daddy” Maurice; turned-on go-go girl cousin Serena, also played by Elizabeth Montgomery, the chameleon id to Samantha’s polite magical matron. If the humdrum mortal (read: straight) lifestyle ever threatened to prevail one of Samantha’s naughty queer relatives would drop in to shake things up.
Observing the way that Samantha solved her problems – lovingly and always with great care – provided me a role model as I navigated the tricky waters of coming out in high school, when I often wished I had an incantation of my own to recite to make things a little easier. Elizabeth Montgomery’s dignity and grace translated into the character of Samantha Stephens, and into my own approach to life as well, when I would often ask myself (and I still do!), “What would Samantha do?”
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